Love becomes hate

I have always tried to uphold my few basic principles to guide my actions instead of my feelings. My idea is that when you don't feel something that is right if you still go by the principles and con yourself into believing the right thing it may help shift your true feelings. One of these is that one cannot hate, wish ill or have any negative feeling towards the one he or she has ever liked or cared about. But does this not make you stifle yourself. When you know you have been wronged and you still know that to maintain the respect of the love that you once had for this person - you keep all the negative feelings bottled inside and put a smile even when your heart is sore. Perhaps it is not a very good idea - perhaps it is rather better to hate (within limits), to let out that rage to get a feeling of vengeance at times when there is a reason for it. If you have been mistreated and continue to supress the reaction out of propriety it will just increase the burden on your heart. Guess this just goes on to prove that my premise that following your principles instead of your heart will make you a better man eventually - was wrong.