Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Musings on relationships - V

Is there a right time for love is the question. Does it in any way help if you are in a good position in your life when you meet the special someone for you. Will it be any different if you met the same person when you are not in the best of your times. The obvious answer is it shouldn't matter but we know it does. It does matter whether the times you meet your soulmate things are favorable for your relationship. Love like all things strong is not invincible. It sometimes needs a bit of help as well. But that was very obvious. The other question is does the right time make you like someone you would not have liked otherwise. I mean if you are happy with everthing in life or feel the need for a companion - does it make it easier to like any person in such times? I am afraid it does at times and it is a very sad thing that it does. Good times and other factors are supposed to be just catalysts and not change anything - specially not the person you like. If it does it is not a catalyst and so the product coming out of it is not love.

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